Fire Safety for Autistic Kids & Teens: How to Prepare Without Panic

Fire safety is essential for every family, but for families with Autistic kids and teens, it can require extra preparation, practice, and support.

From sensory sensitivities to communication differences, many kids on the spectrum experience fire drills, alarms, or even firefighter interactions very differently. But with a few proactive strategies, we can make our homes safer and empower our children to respond calmly in an emergency.

Start with Basic Fire Safety Rules

Even if your child is older, it’s okay to keep things simple and visual.

• Never play with matches, candles, or lighters

• Don’t use the stove or oven without permission

• Stay low and go if there’s smoke

• Call 911 if there’s a fire

• Leave the house right away, don’t grab toys or devices

  
  

Use clear, repeated language and visuals (you can even create your own social stories or visual checklists).

Tip: Reinforce these points calmly and frequently, not just once during Fire Prevention Week.

Practice Emergency Scripts

Many autistic kids struggle with verbal communication, especially under stress. Practicing what to say — before there’s an emergency — can help reduce fear and improve response.

Here’s an example we’ve used at home:

Dispatcher: 911. What is your emergency?

Child: My name is [Name], and I have Autism. There is a fire at my house.

Dispatcher: What is your address?

Child: [Say full address]

Dispatcher: Help is on the way. Stay on the phone with me.

Practice this like role-play, with a caregiver or therapist acting as the dispatcher. You can also use cue cards if verbal speech is challenging.

Contact Your Local Fire Department

Many departments will schedule a non-emergency home visit. They’ll help you:

• Develop a custom evacuation plan

• Teach your child how to recognize firefighters in gear

• Note your child’s diagnosis in their system for future emergencies

We had our local crew walk our son through their gear, let him touch the textures, and even try out the intercom mask and it made a huge difference in reducing fear.

Bonus: they brought a fire truck to our driveway!

Install & Maintain Safety Devices

• Check that smoke alarms are installed in all sleeping areas and tested monthly

• Keep a fire extinguisher in the kitchen and know how to use it

• If your child has a tendency to hide during stress, consider a bedroom window sign that notifies firefighters of a nonverbal or vulnerable occupant

Prepare for Sensory Overload

The sound of alarms, flashing lights, or crowds of responders can be overwhelming. Prep your child ahead of time with:

• Videos of fire drills

• Recordings of alarm sounds

• Social stories about firefighters

• Headphones to reduce noise if evacuation is needed

Tip: If your child uses noise-reducing headphones or has a comfort item, keep it near exits as part of your evacuation kit.

Additional Resources

• Autism Speaks – Safety & First Responders

• Fire Safety - Autism

• Fire Safety Resource Collection

You Can Practice Safety Without Fear

Kids don’t need to be afraid of fire safety — and neither do we as caregivers. With the right preparation, tools, and repetition, they can build skills that last a lifetime.

Download our free Home Safety Starter Pack, which includes:

• STOP signs

• Poison Control cards

• Emergency contact templates

• Fire safety visuals